Visualization You need to visualize the specific changes if you truly want to change your look. What will any improvements you make look like? See yourself with a streamlined body, healthier hair, clearer skin, majestic posture. These changes are realistic and attainable. Stay away from goals you’ll never reach. Don’t compare yourself with someone you’ve seen on the TV or movie screen or on the cover of a magazine. Accept your uniqueness and capitalize on it. Mirrors Boost Attitude The quickest attitude adjustment is through reflection. Women who have low self esteem often avoid mirrors like the plague. However, mirrors can become a big ally. Mirrors can tell you how you’re progressing, in those little ways that may not be noticeable to the casual eye. It is the ultimate objective eye. Do Everything Better The way you use your beauty products will make all the difference in results. For instance, try to duplicate what you see and feel your hair is shampooed at a salon. The product is always handled, never poured directly on hair. Add a massage to your scalp when washing. While rinsing, lift your hair away from your scalp for about two minutes until it squeaks. Discover The Virtues of Vanity Confident women enjoy experimenting as a way of relieving stress and boost morale. Women who care about how they look are fascinating to watch, and teach us about taste and glamour. Vanity is a positive virtue, allowing us to fix our heads as well as our looks.